For good or for better?
Heather Hargis, LMFT, PhD Heather Hargis, LMFT, PhD

For good or for better?

“Who can say if I’ve been changed FOR THE BETTER?

But, Because I knew you

I have been changed…FOR GOOD.”

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ice storms & ice Gems
Heather Hargis, LMFT, PhD Heather Hargis, LMFT, PhD

ice storms & ice Gems

Two Things Can Be True at the Same Time

“When we allow two truths to exist at once, something changes. We stop fighting ourselves and others. We make room for compassion, flexibility, and growth—without pretending everything is fine.

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REAL vs. Pretty
Heather Hargis, LMFT, PhD Heather Hargis, LMFT, PhD

REAL vs. Pretty

Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand.

- Skin Horse, The Velveteen Rabbit

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